I DO NOT SEE THE HARM IN PLAYING ONLINE IN A SEXUAL MANNER SIMPLY BECAUSE , TO ME IT’S AN INNOCENT WAY OF ENTERTAINMENT…IT’S ALL MIND PLAY, FANTASY, IMAGINATION, VISUALIZATION AND VIRTUALIZATION.
On the other hand… there are some men who is married and maybe bored or just looking for some fun time to keep them entertained versus going out there and doing it in reality. Of course, this has to be in complete secrecy and discreetly from his spouse.
Then, there are the few who treats and talk to you like you are sleazy and low down.. they revert to calling you names out of context…such as … ‘little dirty f***ing slut whore’… This is when you wonder if it is worth it… It never feels good to be call names and be belittled, even though its may not be personal…
So that’s why I have my limitations; in cases like this, I gladly use the ‘BLOCK’ button. This is the beauty of online dating, you don’t have to take what you don’t like and you don’t have to argue about it either.
It’s definitely a choice for some innocent fun time sexually if you enjoy that kind of entertainment. You never have to meet, you never have to connect again… no personal information has to be given.. you don’t have to leave the house, worry how you look, how you smell or what you are wearing..
And…. the best part of it all… in my opinions… is you live out your fantasies and creates any scenarios you want, be however sensual, creative, freaky, and wild as you want to be. It all virtualization… so like a dream of who you want to be and who you want to be with… it just helps and feel so real when you have someone playing this game with you…
Words can be so powerful to the mind… whether you hear them or read them… and some times when you add pictures to your imaginations it can be electrifying and very stimulating and creates a result so intoxicating.
SO LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE, IT’S HAS ITS UPS AND DOWNS… AND IS NOT FOR MEANT FOR EVERYONE… BUT FOR THOSE OF US WHO CAN ENJOY A LITTLE DIGITAL THRILL… I SAY, ‘GO FOR IT’ … BUT JUST GO KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT FROM IT AND WANT YOU WON’T ACCEPT… THE CHOICE IS ALWAYS YOURS… USE IT… YOU CAN ALWAYS WALK AWAY OR IN THIS CASE TURN OFF YOUR DEVISE…”CLICK”!!!!