Life is so funny …. I thought I was in control of my emotions.. and nothing could bother me unless I allowed it to…
Well I was put to the test this month.. proving that I don’t have as much control as I thought I did.. haha 😂…..
I have always lived by myself with my boys.. and of course they adapted my need for quietness and calmness..
I’m normally a happy person that doesn’t get annoyed and is very tolerant of certain things..
I decided to invite a young couple to live in my home.. for rent..
I’m a little financially strapped and the extra money was quite enticing for me..
I allowed them to pay me with their first paycheck.. they agreed with the amount.. and didn’t have any complaints and we decided it was official until they can find somewhere more suitable…
Haaa!!! Come time to pay me.. they give me only part and said they found an apartment and leaving..
And the young man gave a lecture with all the reasons he could not pay me.. from the condition of the room to the him having bills..
I didn’t say a word .. apart from telling him to pay me what he owes me and go…
I really don’t like to argue with young people.. And as far as I am concerned.. he is free to do what he wants..
I was a little disappointed 😔.. because I was hoping for a. Continuous flow of rent/money to get back on track…
But he was rude .. and his life style is not my cup of tea…
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Okay 👌…
The day after my son comes pleading on his behalf … asking me not to be unkind and allowed them to stay for another month..
I was very reluctant to give in to his suggestions.. but I did say yes … I will do it…
So.. I went to them.. tell them I wanted to talk to them about staying on..
lol and behold.. he said he is leaving the 1st.. to stay at a extended stay…
I was both glad.. and a little mad..
And it’s been two days since he tells me this and I can’t wait for them to leave …
all of a sudden I find myself so annoyed 😒 and lacking tolerance..
Everything they do.. bothers me.. I have to force myself to ignore them.. and I’m feeling like a stranger in my own home…
I’m very disappointed with my behavior.. I really thought I was more in control of my emotions..
I don’t know if it’s because they would rather pay to stay somewhere else than pay me to stay here…
or is it because they are freeloaders .. staying here increasing my bills….And taking advantage of my kindness..?
I just want them to go.. now..
I will find some other way to come up with that extra money I need…
They are too much more than what it’s worth….
I’m so sorry that I have to open my home 🏡 to people because of my financial situation…
It’s so damn hard to live with people you don’t know anything about…and to put up with their rudeness .. and abusing attitude..
…Smh!!!!..
What was I thinking.????
TO Be CONTINUED….
It’s the violation of personal space. Yes, you invited them but sunconsciously they will always feel like invaders. I think it would be true even if they were pleasant…😞
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You are absolutely right..
Sam..
I guess I live by myself for too long.. and gotten used to being alone… with my attitude..
or I’m just old and cranky
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I’m the same way. I love my cousin to death but last time she brought her BF in with her when she stayed with me and I nearly lost my fucking mind. He’s a buddy of mine and I still thought I would die. That was when I admitted to myself I had changed enough and been alone long enough that my space is just that, MINE alone!
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Maan.,
I really hate to share my space..
But worst is to have someone upsetting my peace of mind.. with behavioral problems I just don’t want to or can’t cope with ..
Aaaah Sam..
money is really the root of all evil..,
That was my reason for letting them in…
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It really is!!!…kick them out and start a lemonade stand 🍋
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Hahahaha
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You have me laughing so damn hard
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I’m about to. Though.. tomorrow is the day
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Oh good! Well don’t let the door hit them on the way out!
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I hope 🤞 it does.. really hard to..
Maan.. another lesson learned..
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Kick them out 😊 it’s bad enough they are strangers let alone freeloading ones .
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wow I couldn’t do dealing with this! theres got to be another way!! As an adult its really hard to have others in your personal space. good luck on dealing with this xx
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Thanks for understanding how I feel…
so true though.. it’s really hard to deal with the invasion of space
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can you not ask them to leave? like now!
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They are supposed to be leaving today..
I hope I don’t have to ask.. because I really can be mean when I’m this upset
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if they don’t leave I think you need to get mean or they wont take you seriously! good luck xx
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My girl.. I’m it doesn’t come to this… I’m normally a calm and super easy person..
but my wrath is not my best feature..
I had to learn to keep it under wraps…. I get so ugly.. and ferocious..
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For me to be blogging about it.. only tells how emotional I really am
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You were thinking with your heart.
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Joker.. I was thinking with my pocket..
I really need that extra income
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True, but that doesn’t explain how you put up with the impudence you dealt with and didn’t lose your cool. For that, it took heart.
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Aaaah
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😁👍
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A contract was made even if it was verbal, to pay for staying. It is a shame they can’t uphold their side and of the deal. I can only hope if you do this again, you will get the $$ up front like most places that rent.
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Yep..
I will definitely not be so kind and trying to be understandable. Next time around…
We have an agreement… and that’s why I allowed them to stay till the last day of this month..
I am just praying that the do leave without me asking
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Seriously, I can easily relate to your annoyance and lacking of tolerance, I would feel the same in a case like this
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Thanks for understanding
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You are welcome, my friend, it’s easy to understand you
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Smiling huge 😊
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Love when you smile, Nita… thanks for your kindness
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Hey 👋 you
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So nice to see you
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Same feeling here!
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Hahahaha
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Well I have reasons to be smiling…
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great, I bet you can always find a reason, since you have always been positive
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You just made me smile.. even more
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So glad I can help, making you smile even further
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You always do.. Luis.. you always do
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Now is me who’s having a big smile!
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Aaaah haaaa!!!
Good job 👏
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:LOL:
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Things have worked out really good for me
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Ohhh, that’s wonderful! I’m so glad to hear that! Did you fall in love or make a good a deal improving your business?
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Fall in love 😍..?????
I would love to be be in love 😍???!!! But no…
My disability has been approved..
so I’m good 😊 moving forward…
It couldn’t have come through at a more opportune moment
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Ohhh, that’s even better than find a new love, hahaha
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Lol 😆..
I really want the love though…
But I guess I need this more right now….
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Sure, love is not meant to last, haha…. well, who knows, you might still find the love of your life…but, no doubt, a helping hand and economical support when you are experiencing troubles is always welcome
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Yep 👍….
it’s very welcome ..
I have a great 👍 peace of mind now…
No more anxieties
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wonderful, my friend
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Hey 👋 el coleccionista..,
Hope you’re having a good day today…,
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Hello sweetie! Happy New Year!!! I’m doing fine, just too busy to care about anything else than my usual task…but I don’t forget you!
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Happy 😃 New Year Luis..
I really do understand.. I strayed a little myself..
I just decided to start writing ✍️ again..
Life does that you know..
And thanks for not forgetting me..
you are only but a thought away yourself..
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