You know. . . time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, and embarking on my new life. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But, here it is… the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise… How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like. But, here it is…my friends are retired and getting grey… they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some in worse shape than me…but, I see the great change… Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant..but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we’d be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore… it’s mandatory!

Cause if I don’t on my own free will… I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so…now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I’m not sure how long it will last… this I know, that when it’s over on this earth…it’s NOT over. A new adventure will begin!

Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn’t done…things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I’m happy to have

done. It’s all in a lifetime.

So, if you’re not in your winter yet…let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it timely! Don’t put things off too long!

Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not! You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life…so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember…and hope that

they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!

“Life” is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.



“It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.



~Your kids are becoming you……

~Going out is good. Coming home is better!

~You forget names… But it’s OK because other people forgot they even knew you!!!

~You realize you’re never going to be really good at anything…. especially golf.

~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don’t care to do them anymore.

~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed.

It’s called “pre-sleep”.

~You miss the days when everything worked with just an “ON” and “OFF” switch..

~You tend to use more 4 letter words … “what?”…”when?”… “what?” “where?”

~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry – it’s not safe to wear it anywhere.

~You notice everything they sell in stores is “sleeveless!?”

~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

~Everybody whispers.

~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet…. 2 of which you will never wear.

~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all,


It’s Not What You Gather, But What You Scatter That Tells What Kind of winter yours is or is going to be. Enjoy life b4 winter or enjoy the winter. Wherever u may be, my friend I wish you Gods blessings.. for a warm and cozy winter…

20 thoughts on “THE WINTER OF MY LIFE….

        1. Good job ๐Ÿ‘…

          Coming up to end of our journey….
          and looking back from where we are coming.. we then only realizes the distance we have traveled… it seems like another lifetime ago…
          look where we are now.. to where we were..????!!!!!!

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  1. This is such a deep, reflective post…really engaging. I often think about this theme and entering the Winter of my life. You have offered some great advice about being in the moment and savoring the journey through all phases of life. The same can be for this phase as well. Do every thing in your control to keep yourself physically, mentally, and sexually vibrant. Keep pursuing and basking in passion’s fire…life can be an endless summer with only intermittent winter for recovery ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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    1. Oooh maan micheal

      I must say this..
      you certainly have a way with words..

      And you are so gifted in giving the sweetest compliments that always put a huge smile on my face…

      Thank you for such great advice yourself..
      and as long as I have your around.. I will definitely be basking in passionโ€™s fire ๐Ÿ”ฅ…

      Iโ€™m feeling the heat of the summer right now…and Iโ€™m basking…..

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      1. Awww Nita, you are so giving and I do want you to feel the same energy in return.๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜˜I love the thought of you smiling and basking in the heat… Mmmm, the thought of basking deep inside your heat has me smiling right now (among other things) ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜˜

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