PASSION OF LIFE

PASSION: It’s so hard to find our passions sometimes… And materialize it to our benefit… You have to admire those that live for their passions, and do all it takes to make it happen. But.. what happen to those that tried.. but never really had the resources or the opportunities to fulfill their dreams and bring their passions to fruition.

What do you like to do???.. How can we make it work for us??? This is a question I have struggled with all my life.. I dream of all the things I would do   if I could… but could never come up with something I’m so passionate about that I get so motivated and determined to pursue.. I find myself talking about things I want to do but never actually put any real efforts in seeing it through..

Sometimes we know what we love and what we like to do.. We have it all in our heads just how we would like it to be but… Lack the know how.. And the resources to get it done… Sometimes we also don’t have the motivation and the faith in ourselves.. It’s like a dream without reality… and we become so comfortable with the way things are …so afraid of taking risks and making changes, of starting something we are not sure of.. scared of failing and losing…

YOU CAN’T GIVE UP SURE FOR UNSURE:

And there is some of us that just can’t figure out what our passion is .. Therefore we don’t have a niche, To pursue… So we live the life that comes natural to us.. go with the flow .. try to make the right choices… do what we think is right for us… and what we think is expected of us..

Happiness can be found here.. if we learn to be contend and accept things as is.. instead of finding misery in everything… always unsatisfied with their lives.. wanting more but never actually trying to accomplish or achieve anything else… always complaining about the lack of…wanting and expecting someone to create their happiness and to make them whole..

Passion… can be defined, I guess as; whatever brings happiness to you.. Maybe LOVE.. Maybe KIDS… Maybe your CAREER.. FRIENDS… FAMILY.. and the list goes on and on…Whatever you think it is… my advise is to be contended with where you are to where you are coming from… find the joys in your journey and have gratitude for everything you have acquired.. Our destiny sometimes… is the path that life has taken us… the people that we cross path with…we have to learn to enjoy the journey with faith and great anticipation.

ONLINE DATING: Misconceptions.

I CAME ACROSS THIS ONE CONNECTION… HE STATE ON HIS POST,”Putting this out there and see who looks. We all have needs and by no means do I sleep around but…. Cute girls apply.”….

I thought it was funny so I placed a comment that I would like to put in my application… Even though I’m not cute… 

Of course he responded and I asked for what I’m applying for and the requirements and I would like to see if I have the credentials to qualify for the position..

He didn’t hesitate in letting me know that it’s to take care of him sexually…we continued talking and share a few pictures..
I always play along… humorously..because this is the expectation from these guys… and I have accepted this behavior without judgement.. because I know .. I do have the choice to ignore.. if I dont like..

Well.. after all that lingo and conversation we had.. him making it clear what he’s about.. he post this…”Is anyone serious on this App. Maybe and I say that loosely that I may have met one person that is real and not playing games.”
Now.. I’m here thinking, how very contraditing is this..
Was that a test he put me through.. hahahaha… if so.. I guess I failed.. I wasn’t expecting any decency.. from him.. and.. I am so glad I didn’t get too deep in with him… even though I dont know him personally and I had deleted him because I was not really serious, I was just playing along with him; I was not going to entertain his sexual behavior…

It just goes to show.. how sometimes.. not everyone is what you assume them to be…
so it’s best to be yourself other than trying to play the games of someone else…

So what could be a really good connection.. Maybe… If I didn’t try to be funny and thinking of playing his game…was messed up.. And lost..

Obviously…he left having the wrong impression of me.. The one I gave him… 

TO YOURSELF BE TRUE… 

ONLINE DATING: CHOICES

I WAS READING AN ARTICLE ABOUT A COMMENT MADE BY ONE MAN ABOUT HIS OPINIONS ON GIRLS WHO POSES SEXUALLY AND SENSUALLY TO STIMULATE MEN ONLINE…HE WANTS US GIRLS TO KNOW THAT MEN ONLY LUST AT US AND DON’T REALLY LIKES US. {DUH} THAT’S THE EXACT INTENTION INTENDED…

My own opinion on the subject is that he was not giving us ladies any credit in knowing exactly what to expect from these men…  some girls might just be open sexually, but…some  do get  joy out of sexual insinuations and innuendos…knowing that they can hold and command men interests and be able to stimulate their sexual desire making them lustful.

Men are not the only ones that are very sexual: some women are highly sexual too and are very comfortable with themselves and their sexuality…they are easily stimulated and do find the male body and their erogenous zone very desirable and stimulating. Men are known to be the species who is all about lust and sex… but don’t be mistaken, we women do  too.. and most are very bashful and reserved; but, some of us are quite bold and open.. and it’s not right to be classed as sleazy or trashy because we used our assets to entice and stimulate men..

FOR YOUR INFORMATION: men do reciprocate and expose their lustful assets too.. and we do enjoy what they have to offer and derive  great satisfaction from it. We are not expecting LOVE; or a relationship, it’s all about having a little fun with something that we find an enjoyment in doing…it makes us laugh and it amuses both parties and we are not harming anyone with our fun time..

It’s about a matter of choice and knowing exactly what we want and expect from it… So please don’t judge our action just because you don’t approve of it.. you too have a choice.. you can choose ignore and bypass it all… and you don’t have to accept it.. but please don’t pass judgement.

We all have the freedom of choice to do what we think is right for us. And I still believe… IF YOU HAVE IT… FLAUNT IT…

Daily Prompt: Luxury

via Daily Prompt: Luxury

LUXURY??????

When we think luxury, we think riches; all the things money can buy and allow us to gain.. Land, houses, cars jewellery, yacht, vacations.. ect. ect..

The meaning of luxury is the state of great comfort and extravagant living…. excessive.

WE always relate luxury to our way of living in the this world… but… I always think of the luxuries of life differently… Living and enjoying life and all this world has to offer is what I like to think of as luxuries …

I think that knowing to live life fully and being totally contend in where you are at and who you are will allow you to be able to enjoy all the great luxuries of life.

My number one joy of life is to be loved intensely and to love with the same passion .. is life greatest luxury; this one emotional feeling.. creates so much joy and happiness that it leaves you feeling so exhilarating and breathless; it makes life so worthwhile and makes you so glad to be alive, so you could experience this most awesome and amazing feeling of being in love and be loved.

My number two is the food we eat.. man.. nothing like having and enjoying a good meal. It’s always great to feel so satisfied and full and having the taste lingering in your mouth. It is the staff of life and one life greatest luxury…

The people we meet.. the friends we form and the bonds we creates.. the laughter we share.. The kids we bear and brought into this world… the joy of watching them grow and joy of molding them … and caring and helping them to be the best you know how..

The world couldn’t be any better… as long as you accomplished and achieve these … you have life greatest luxuries… It’s all that money can’t buy and if you have all the money in the world and you don’t have any these worldly luxuries… then your life would still feel empty and your happiness and joy would only be short-lived and you will keep on trying to find things to buy to fill the gap…

THE LUXURIES OF LIFE… LOVE.. FOOD… FRIENDS…KIDS.. equals JOY… HAPPINESS… LAUGHTER AND A LIFE WORTH LIVING…

 

ONLINE DATING

WHAT DO GUYS REALLY LOOKING FOR ONLINE? CONNECTIONS?… CONVERSATIONS?…HOOKUPS?… OR JUST A GOOD TIME VIRTUALLY???

I have been online for a little over a year now,  I started out looking just for some conversations and forming a few connection. At first i wouldn’t allow or entertained naughty, dirty or inappropriate conversations; But…. I do find the subject to be amusing and I do have fun joking around with insinuations and innuendos…

I started to entertained some of the guys sexual behavior and play along sometimes just for little laugh, telling myself it’s just an innocent little fun… what harm can be done by just texting/sexting; And so I find myself getting all caught up in it and even find myself enjoying the lingoes. Once I started on this part, I realized that every time we connected, it’s now expected to be about sex. I play along …and then the request keep rolling in for evolvement… from texting to pictures; and then videos; and of course video cam.

I do have my limitations of just how much I will do and how far I will go, and of course this always results in losing a connection I was having fun with and I have to move on to the next guy wanting and requiring the same thing… It’s a never ending game…

I finally figure out that I won’t find any guys online for just a clean conversation. No matter where they are from; what part of the world, men will be men… no matter what. This digital mode we are in.. just allow them to find and get off on in a new and different way. It like live porn and although it’s a seemingly innocent way of having an online affair with girls like me who is willing to entertain and give them their pleasure; Helping them to live out their fantasies and give them their virtual satisfaction…Is it actually innocent? Or can it cause damage to oneself and to others involved?

I have mixed feelings and opinions about virtual affairs.

What do you feel about affairs online? do you think its innocent ? or do you think it’s sleazy?

My next blog will be… “MIXED FEELING”

Daily Prompt: Praise

via Daily Prompt: Praise

PRAISE: In church? Praising the lord has been going on forever; those who believe does it diligently..

PRAISE: expression of approval or admiration for someone..it usually encourage and motivate the individual.

Praising is a very positive gesture to be given; we should always give praises to our kids… for everything well done, no matter how small it is … Our spouses; our friends; our co workers.

A simple praise can make a world of difference to someone day, It will always guarantee a smile and brighten their day leaving them feeling good and super special. You do not know whose life you are going to touch and whose life your words of inspiration will leave an impact on; So, always try to make someone smile with a little praise and watch them walk away with head thrown back and a confident walk smiling and chuckling heartily and joyously all because of what you say.

A SIMPLE PRAISE… GOES A VERY FAR WAY… AND MAKES A WORLD OF DIFFERENCE TO THE ONES WHO RECEIVE IT.

 

LIFE EXPERIENCES

WE ALL HAVE OUR SHARE OF LIFE EXPERIENCES; SOME OF US TAKE IT AS LESSONS LEARNED; SOME… SEE THESE EXPERIENCES AS FAILURES; OTHERS… WALK AWAY, TAKING NOTHING WITH THEM; THEY SIMPLE JUST KEEP MOVING FORWARD FORGETTING THE PAST COMPLETELY, AND KEEP ON REPEATING AND DOING THE VERY SAME THING THEY DID , GETTING THE VERY SAME RESULT EVERY TIME, AND WONDERING WHY DOES IT KEEP HAPPENING TO THEM?

Me…I try to learn and never forget these experiences, they stay with me and keep me company along life’s journey. I don’t live in regrets of what has been done, yes… we have made choice that were not right for the moment; but I always live and enjoy every moment and at that precise moment i must have thought it was right for me for whatever reason.

I live in the moment and live by this quote: “LIFE MAY BE A CHANCE; but… IT’S WORTH TAKING…

How I wish I could pass this along to everyone I come in contact with, but we also have to accept and respect the fact that not everyone can think and feel like you do. we also have to be logical and be realistic, and realize that we all interpret things differently and we all have our own opinions about certain subjects; everyone do think they are right with how they decipher and understands life and their own experiences, and if we find someone who shares our views, wonderful!!!…  and if they don’t… we just move on. It’s our choice to choose whom we associate with.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions.