FREELOADERS: MISS TING

….. I was quite upset with the fact that she didn’t give me that money .. especially when I had to find another way of funding for this outstanding bill…

I tried to stay calm but my emotions was very obvious.. and everything started to bother me…

I became very bitchy… and very grumpy…

My son was becoming the target of my gripes because I know If I had to address her personality I couldn’t and wouldn’t be nice…

One evening my son came out and was joking about things of the past and I was very amused at first and played along with him until he touched that very sensitive subject…

It sparks that fire that was building in me and I completely exploded..

I got so loud and I went off angrily…

and I repeated myself about the money she refuses to give..

But…

can go tanning and eat out everyday..

And yet she claims she can’t afford to pay me what’s I’m due….

Like the water and electricity she uses run on air.. or like I don’t have to pay a mortgage for this house monthly..

Like how she come. Living in here scotch free .. freeloading her ass on everything that I paid for to own…

Acting like she’s entitled and like I owes her freeloading ass a living…

Leaving trails of mess behind her for me to clean up like I’m the maid in my own house…

And when I asked for the bare minimum to help me with all she extra bills she racked up..

I’m mean and nasty and money hungry…

I said all that and more…

my son quickly went to his room.. knowing that…. from experience… when I reached this point of fury.. there is no calming me..

And that I will say everything and more until I feel satisfied…

I stopped and went to my room.. so angry.. that i wanted to run away from it all…

I woke up next day.. still not too happy.. but a little calmer…

Over the next few days I became silent trying to regain my sweet composure…

Until…..

Her birthday was on the 10th…

On the day in question , my son came to me asking if I could watch the baby because they want to go out to celebrate,,,

I refused.. thinking … pleasingly that I would get back at her some and she would have to stay home with baby…

Haha πŸ˜†

The joke was on me…

A couple hours later Abraham came with baby asking me to play with her a little..

I told him to let miss Ting deal with her baby today…

There he informs me that she went out with her friends to celebrate..

MISS TING… actually thinks her birthday was so much more important than staying with her baby..

I chuckled.. in disbelief.. and I look at my son and shake my head… telling him that he really is enabling her and spoiling her ass..

I took my granddaughter and I played with her and was convinced that MISS TING is clearly not responsible enough to be a mother…

I see and realized that I have to assist my son with her until she gets older…

But it left a gnawing feelings in my gut that I am stuck with MISS TING… and god knows I really don’t know how I am going to tolerate her for much longer…

I will have to sacrifice my son and my granddaughter and lose both.. which creates great anxieties in me thinking… can I!!!????

We’ll just have to wait and see… and pray for an answer to this dilemma…

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TO BE CONTINUED…..

HOLDING ON TO A DREAMΒ 

This is a very personal campaign.. 

REVISED…UPDATED….And RESUBMITTING….

Trying to be more effective and hoping more will be willing to give an Helping Hand 🀚…

Telling my story.. I’m hopeful that it gives understanding to my choosing to go this route…

Thanks to all those that take time to read.. 

       At your gracious mercy 

WENDY…  NITA… MAXINE…



https://www.gofundme.com/42qih8o

I have had many dreams growing up becoming an adult.

  1. Getting married πŸ‘°… (I got married thrice..)
  2. Having children πŸ‘Ά…. ( I had two sons..,my prized bulls…
  3. Having a career.. (I became an accountant… but ended up as the bestest cashier ever was.. 
  4. Owning my home 🏑…( I did..,bought my home 🏑 21 years ago..

Worked the same job .. raised my boys to adulthood.. and then life takes a turn.. 

The last few years developed a condition that limited my mobility.. the onset came gradually with falling.. dizzyness…Which grows into a phobia.. fear of falling.. eventually losing balance.. and walking 🚢 with aid.. 

I continued to work ignoring my problems..  and limitations…. with the lack of fully walking and functional use of my feet.. starts to affect my hips and my back.. 

Making it difficult to stand without back pain.. I used pain killers to be functional and performed my duties..

I was enduring and being tolerant.. knowing I couldn’t afford to stop βœ‹ working just yet…

Another mistake I made.. was not getting medical treatment or attention.. just didn’t want to take the time away from work for doctor πŸ‘¨β€βš•οΈ visits.. 

And then … fates hit..

I lost my job…

I couldn’t get rehired any where.. my limitations redeems me unfit to perform totally the job requirements… 

I  couldn’t file disability.. no medical history.. 

And now… I’m in jeopardy of holding on to MY DREAM.. ( my home 🏑)

I fell behind in my mortgage… friends and family has helped as much as they can.. 

I ran out of financial resources… 

I don’t want to lose my home 🏑… I’m much too old to start over..

I have spent the last year going to the doctors trying to solve my condition.. 

I have been to every specialist even seen a psychiatrist.. did some physical therapy..

But my condition remains… my back pain has gotten so severe and chronic..

I just put in an application for disability. But it’s gonna take up to six months to get an answer of approval..,

I fall more losing my balance..

I have learned how to adjust and adapt to my condition.. I keep going.. still trying to do what’s necessary.. even though it’s at a much slower pace than used to .. 

Now I’m reduced to asking for help.. I know everyone has their lives and their responsibility..And I can’t expect to get help from everyone..  

That is why I started “A GoFundME campaign… 

So those who are able to help with any amount you can afford..can do so.. and know that it will be greatly appreciated .. 

This site is really safe to use your πŸ’³ card…

Please help me keep my home 🏑..,

WHEN GOD ORDERS.. EVEN THE DEVIL OBEYS..

Just want to share with you.. just how powerful is our faith.. .. 

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Just imagine.. 

that man didn’t realize that he was obeying the orders of god.. 

he really thought he was playing a prank.. for a laugh πŸ˜‚…. 

the joke was on him..

Even the devil obeys…. 

he may not be a believer… but he was used for that mission…