INGRATITUDE: Good Deed Gone Bad…part 2

ENGLAND 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 IN THE PARK…

We have put the incident of the bank and card behind us..Christmas came and went and we are good again…

Miss Perfect is supposed to leave end of January.. but somehow find a way to lingers a little longer… this puts a strain with she and her sister relationship …

My neighbor was ready to get her space back and get back to her normal routine without the inconvenience of entertaining Miss Perfect…

She loves sis..

But her company was becoming overbearing…and sis was starting to act her true self which irritates her….

Anyways moving along…

She needs funds to stay so her son wanted to send her some money…I have a PayPal account which I had received $ 150 through for her once before..

She asked if I could do it again for her.. without hesitation I told her yes…

Afterall its not costing me nothing to be of service ..

So he sent the another $ 150…

I saw the transaction but I noticed two things..

one: PayPal charges a fee of $6.90..

And…

Two: the balance is on hold..

I had no idea why these actions took place but I thought I would give PayPal some time to release the funds…

Of course I informed Miss Perfect of it all…

and we waited.. and waited… and waited..

She keeps on inquiring.. and I keep letting her know the status is still the same…

I was getting kinda curious as to why so After a week I decided to call PayPal and try to figure the reason for this hold and also why was I charged a fee..

I got an agent to talk after two tries.. and she explained to me that the transaction was done as a purchase..

Miss Perfect son obviously 🙄 uses PayPal as a way of buying things online and automatically sent me the money using that feature..

So I explain the situation and asked the agent how can we resolved the problem and get it off being held…

She advises me to tell the sender that he should go back in and hit ” The Receive button” as though he receives the product that he supposedly purchase… because the payment won’t be released until he received his item…

Okay.. understood… easy enough…

So I called Miss Perfect and explain to her what I had found out…

She said she would pass it along to her son…

Next morning bright and early she sent me a text of his PayPal account showing the money is available..

lo and behold ….

When I checked it was cleared .. so I immediately transferred it to my bank.. but it’s takes up to two days to reach my bank and clear..

I sent her a text telling her this.. she started to give me attitude and behaving again as if I’m cheating her out of her money..

The conversation goes like this…

I don’t know if Im overthinking or reading too much into this conversation but I’m personally sensing again some degree of ingratitude..

And it infuriates me that she is trying to make me feel bad for doing her this favor and for making me feel as if I’m the one guilty of putting a hold on this money… Or I am purposely withholding her funds…

And here she’s acting so dumb…. which I figured she actually is… with the knowledge of PayPal account and it’s functions..

I also get the feeling .. she thinks I’m so obligated to do it for her..

My first thought was to send the money back to her son… and let them find another way of getting it to her… But the kind person in me talk me out of it…

I know she is need of this funds.. so I will get it to her and forgot the whole thing…

But vow never say yes to any more of her requests…

I think I have learned a valuable lesson on ingratitude versus 🆚 kindness..

Sometimes a good deed goes bad…

but it’s still remains a good deed…

11 thoughts on “INGRATITUDE: Good Deed Gone Bad…part 2

  1. I would say she’s used up her kudos now. Let her stew from this point if she can’t be grateful for your good turns. It’s beyond ingratitude; she’s even tried to insinuate you’re conning her. Unbelievable! Kick this bitch to the kerb!

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